Break the silence for LGBT inclusion
Today is National Coming Out Day, celebrating the need and importance of being able to live openly and freely as LGBT people. While our society has made great strides and many people are comfortable being out at work, school and in their social lives, the Church remains a place where people are scared to come out as LGBT or even as allies.
The first step at making our church more welcoming is to make sure that LGBT and Allied Catholics are visible. Sadly, when people of faith are silent, people assume they agree with the discriminatory language of the Bishops, it is up to us to make sure people know that the majority of Catholics support the rights and dignity of our LGBT community members. Courageous Conversations, a wonderful resource from Equally Blessed, has tips for breaking the silence. You don't have to confront a Bishop, simply a chat with a fellow parishioner at coffee hour can be a powerful motivator for change!
Coming out for LGBT rights is important not only so that LGBT families feel comfortable being themselves in our communities but also because the Don't Ask Don't Tell policies that keep parish workers, Catholic school teachers, and priests closeted for the sake of their jobs are unjust and unhealthy. Breaking the taboo also creates an environment where LGBT kids feel safe and loved and where we can celebrate the full lives of all parishioners and their families.
The synod is a great excuse to start a conversation; try sharing this inclusive prayer for families or asking a friend what they think of the content of the Synod.
Above: a WYD pilgrim and supportive priest prepare to ask a Bishop about LGBT catholics -- your conversation doesn't have to be so public!
